A case for NOT setting goals.

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The Paradox of Goals: 🤯

Hello readers!

🌟 Today we return to our roots. It has been some time since we shared an interesting TEDTalk. Buckle up.

Emmanuel Acho is making waves across the internet. Emmanuel, a former NFL player turned content creator, unpacks the idea that the "surest way to fail in life is to set a goal." Confused? Intrigued? Let's break it down.

The NFL Dream Shattered 🏈

Emmanuel starts his talk by sharing a personal story. He talks about his goal of being drafted in the first three rounds of the NFL draft, only to have it shattered by a torn quadriceps muscle. This moment serves as his catalyst for re-evaluating the concept of setting goals.

🤔 The Question: Is setting goals actually detrimental to your overall well-being and potential for success?

Why Do We Set Goals? 🎯

Emmanuel suggests that we set goals because we've been indoctrinated to believe they are essential for achievement. We see goals as our North Star 🌟, providing motivation and a path. Finally, our insatiable desire for feedback also fuels our need to set goals. Think "likes" on Instagram or shares on TikTok; these are the micro-goals we unconsciously aim for in our daily lives.

The Hidden Risks of Goal-Setting ⚠️

🚨 The Insight: Emmanuel argues that the risk of goal-setting is often greater than the potential reward. Why? Because goals are inherently limiting and focus solely on the end, not the journey.

According to Emmanuel, we must focus on the journey.

In Emmanuel's case, his single-minded focus on his NFL draft goal led him to harmful decisions, like dropping 10 pounds in just two days, ultimately resulting in a catastrophic injury.

Objective Over Goals 🌈

🔄 The Shift: Emmanuel proposes that instead of setting goals, we should have an "objective with no limitations."

He illustrates this with an example from Kirk Hammett, the lead guitarist for Metallica. Kirk never aimed for Grammys or record sales; he just wanted to improve his guitar skills every day. This open-ended approach leaves room for endless possibilities, rather than being restricted by a specific end goal.

The Freedom of Possibility 🕊️

In conclusion, Emmanuel's talk urges us to subscribe to the notion of possibility over goal-setting. Goals, he argues, inherently stifle what we might actually achieve by setting arbitrary end points.

👏 Applause Moment: Emmanuel ended his talk sharing that if he'd achieved his NFL draft goal, he would never have won a Primetime Emmy Award and wouldn't have been on the TED stage, sharing this radical perspective on life.

The Bottom Line 📝

Emmanuel Acho's TED Talk opens a new door to how we think about setting goals and living life to its fullest. Maybe it's time to embrace a limitless approach to our objectives, letting go of the self-imposed constraints that goals often bring.

Ready for a rethink? 🔄

With love,

— Amir and Erik

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